It's helpful to define the terms. The extremists also won the slavery and divine-right-of-kings debate, at least in the US. If there's a meaning to "extremist" other than "far from the center at the time," I don't know what it is.  
 
--John

So, in my circle of friends in high school, there was a definite notion of anything-but-sex meaning you were still a virgin. Though this was *not* a state most of us guys aspired to, it was often a limit set by girls of that age. (This led to a rich appreciation of the ironies of the law, since in Missouri, oral sex was technically illegal. Get those kids thinking about the difference between the law and right-and-wrong early!) 
 
--jmk 
 
--John