Michelle Cottle hates Joe Millionaire and Noy Thrupkaew tells you why it degrades both genders. Yeah, but people are flocking to watch it.
Unfortunately, I think as contrived and artificial as these shows are, they are shedding light on a few of the strands that makes people select their mates. Intelligence & humor are always the number #1 criteria that both men and women declare in their prospective partner, but what is left unsaid is that there is a general level of physical attractiveness that is necessary (or barring that, financial success) that must be met before you would even allow the process of discernment to begin. Personally, what I find most amusing is watching men having to create rationales for their choices of women for what they know is a predominantly female audience. It seems clear that their selections of women are based on physical appearence and willingness to “put out” (let’s be honest, how well can you get to know someone in a week anyhow? The first rounds are all about meat-inspection).

