
But I still have a distance to go. I want to push my body fat percentage closer to ~10%. Part of it is health, but at this point much of it is aesthetic. A friend of mine finds this all quizzical, since I haven’t been single in more than 10 years. But then again, he’s single, so what does he know about motivations? The reality is that everyone is not beautiful, and that almost everyone can get more beautiful. And that’s a good thing, and not just because it’s a social construct. Eating junk food and being lazy feels good too. But it doesn’t make you feel good about yourself.
The low hanging fruit is gone. At this point I’m running about 3.5 to 4.0 miles 4-5 days a week, and hitting the weights a similar number of days. Though I think I’m making slow but steady progress, I’m worried that I’m trying to do too much. E.g., am I running so much that I’m losing muscle mass? (I’m starting to suspect this) Do I need to eat more? Do I suffer from low T? There are lots of questions I have.
Of course you can go to bodybuilding.com and “get all the answers.” But you then know how that goes. Next there are informative websites like Skinny-Fat Transformation. What’s one to believe? I believe in personal experimentation, so I think I can get there by iterating. But it’s a tough haul, and I’d like to cut a few corners. (though one thing that’s consensus is that pull-ups are good)
So I’m putting this post up mostly to get reader feedback. My ultimate goal is to get down to the body fat percentage above, and gain definition. I’m not aiming for a lot of bulk. I’m only 5’8, and I don’t want to turn into what I like to term the “brick-guys” (the guys build like bricks). What’s worked for you? What’s not? People of South Asian ancestry especially would be useful.
Note: I have a very young looking face and my skin hasn’t aged much at all, so one issue that I suspect I have is a lot of subcutaneous fat. My suspicion is that this means that it’s not easy for me not to look smooth and fatty.

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